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Friday, December 21, 2007

The one with a day to remember...

On the 11th Nov, I celebrated a very special day with my family. My sis finally got hitched...

Somehow, I have wished for the day to come, hoping that maybe when she left the house... meaning more room for me... HAHAHA!!! In contrary, I never knew I would feel differently.

For many years, our r/s seemed to drift further and further and soon we don't really talk that much anymore. Moreover, with my job, I never had the opportunity to attend many of the in-law gatherings. Wat was worst is that after dating for abt 5yrs, I never got to learn wat my further bro-in-law works in which company other than being in an advertising company.

Sometimes, I would feel abit sad bcos we use to be so close when we were young and I always remembered the times we went out together, and me always watching over her in sch. The funny thing was that my best friend's younger sis was her best friend too and four of us would hang out together all the time and strange enough, both our friendship with our best friends didnt last...

Something that I will always remembered for instance was when we were very young, the two of us went out together to watch "The Little Mermaid" by ourselves for the first time at the original Cathay cinema at Handy road . We bought so much stuffs at Yaohan that we had no money to go home. Then we tried to sell the stuff back to the cashier to earn some money back home. That was so memorable...

Now back to the wedding... On the day of the ceremony, she and my bro-in-law had to serve me a cup of tea as a form of chinese tradition. I never would expect what happened next... I started tearing and soon after I was bawling so badly, I had to quickly exit myself to my room... I don't understand the rush of emotions that just took control of me... (Everyone... Awww....) Wats worst was that the video camera man took the opportunity to stuff the camera in my face recording every moment!!!

I suddenly realised that, I am loosing my lil sister... After all these yrs of silence, I actually cared for her so much and that I never expected to miss her that much. It shocked her too as she had always asked my mum whether I had ever cared abt her... Well I guess she does now...
During the wedding ceremony at Conrad, it was her turn to make the speech... I didnt expect wat she would say but as she uttered the words ..."Someone dear in my life, a man of VERY VERY few words, my brother. Thank you for caring and loving me..." (Aww....Wailing moment!!!) Ah yoh the waterworks don't seem to be stopping loh... (Camera in ur face!!!) Paiseh man...


Everything went well... She was great... My bro-in-law was great... So happened that, his name is also Kevin which is the same as my beloved as well as the very gay wedding planner... I was surprise my sis actually has lots of gay friends... truely eye candies for me as while as me for them... HAHAHA... I was good... I was great... I was yummy!!!

Past few weeks were great, my r/s with my sis started to grow again. She would sms me more which she never in the past. And I actually wrote to her my feeliings and how much I really cared even when I didnt show... which I will try harder in the further... I am really happy now...

Her getting married is the best thing that could happen to us.

Now I am proud to say... I love my sis... :)

sign out.